Psychotherapy

When engaging with the world, people are naturally attracted to physical appearance,
and from this arises attachment to sensations, especially pleasurable ones.
This then gives rise to all sorts of false perceptions, which, in turn, give rise to afflictive mental and emotional states.

Primary Goal: To Stop School Shootings

What Do I offer: I will be a true friend to any one that needs true friendship. (Because true friendship is decaying)

In general: the American Psychiatric Association describes Psychotherapy as a way to help people with a broad variety of mental illnesses and emotional difficulties. Psychotherapy can help eliminate or control troubling symptoms so a person can function better and can increase well-being and healing.

Problems helped by psychotherapy include difficulties in coping with daily life; the impact of trauma, medical illness or loss, like the death of a loved one; and specific mental disorders, like depression or anxiety. There are several different types of psychotherapy and some types may work better with certain problems or issues. Psychotherapy may be used in combination with medication or other therapies.

For 20 Years I’ve studied psychology as a mean to understand why things happen, why we suffer, why this and why that. In my childhood I was sent a few times to counselors to try to understand why I was behaving the way I was. During the first 15 years I was the average kid, getting in trouble here and there, listening to voices in my head, getting into fights, arguing with my mom at home, not getting along with family and having a few friends where we go out, play basketball and drink beer.


What can we Answer?
I always asked myself why... And No one every answered.

Since I was born, like most people I started questions the most basic aspects of life, I would often as simple questions and I would always get simple answers, but as I keep growing up, and developing, socially, emotionally and physically, all this simple questions started to become more complex.  At the beginning I thought it was normal and even I was told not ask certain questions. Sadly, this is the worst thing that anyone can do to anyone, it is the worst punishment and the most hateful thing there is (they say ignorance is a bliss. Wrong!). Why would anyone say no to ask questions? That king of people is the reason there is so much suffering in the world. Some do it out of pure ignorance, but there is a few that the do it with that purpose.

As I keep growing and changing, changing and growing I started asking…

They Told me not to ask questions...
But Why...?
Why I was born.
Why I was always sad.
Why I was different.
Why I was never (I did have a few happy days) happy.
Why I was always getting in trouble.
Why I would be the one to be blame for everything.
Why my family never supported me and always judged me.
Why I would get into a fight at least once a month.
Why I had bad luck.
Why I was so shy.
Why other have been bullying me my whole life.
Why I would ask for help and get discouraged instead.
Why I would ask God every single night crying myself to sleep and he would never reply.
What is the meaning of life.
Why are we here.
Why the society is the way it is.
Why there is suffering.
Why things happen.
Why there is good.
Why there is evil.
Why people hate people.
Why everything happens.
Why is God punishing me.
What did I do to deserve this.
Why people abandoned me when I need them.
Why did I fail when I tried so hard.
Why I would get and slap in the face instead of a hug.
Why would the people I love turn their back on me.
Why I can't sleep.
Why nothing seems right.
Why I can't be happy.
Why I can't have what I want.
Why I am always broke.
Why nothing is the way I wish.
Why I don't feel satisfaction about anything.
Why I feel empty.
Why sometimes I feel nothing.
Why sometimes I hate everything and everyone.
Why I feel this way.
What are these voices in my head.
Why do I see this things.
What is real, I can't tell anymore.
Why do I feel people want to hurt me.
Why do I feel someone is chasing me.
Why I can't stop thinking about harming myself.
Why seems that if I wasn't alive everything would be perfect.
Why do I think that if I wasn't born everybody would be so happy.
Why do I think that the only way people would like me is if I was dead.
Why do I want to kill myself.
Why is there suffering in the world.
Why is this?
Why is that?
Why…?

For 23 Years 50% of my life felt empty, sad, depressed, once in a while I would have a little bit of fun, sometimes at someone else's expenses :-P but for the most part everything was just wrong. The only thing I have always been proud was that due the fact that no one ever believed in me, that no one ever helped me, and that everybody wanted to see me down, stepping on me and never wanted to see me succeeding at anything, made me stronger as Nietzsche said once, In fact I have achieved a few major things people under the same circumstances could not and probably would not. Intellectually, I can say so much about me but that's not the point right now (This will be shared later). (Sadly I used to think this way...)

To conclude, one day I woke up and said to myself I am tired, nobody has ever done nothing for me, and nobody will ever do anything for me, I think I want to do something, something different, something that I couldn't understand why I did it, but it changed my life forever. It took me a few years to realize WHY, and because no one ever came to tell me, I want to go out and tell YOU.

I'll tell you anything you want to know and answered any question you might  have. How you can achieved piece and happiness  and how it can be achieved.

Because one day we will wake up and realize that our entire life was just wasted, sadly it will be "too late", we will be old, no one around us, we will crave and desire a hug or a little attention, but by then if we are lucky we will be on a bed not being able to do anything and relaying on other for help. Our mind will go crazy and we will suffer because it's about to end and there is not 2nd chance or coming back.

Why do I need the money for?
In my 3rd attempt to grow this project and turn it into something meaningful,
The money will be used for office space so it will enable me to be able to help others.

On my own and out of my pocket expenses:
I am purchasing office furniture
I will be paying for electric bills, internet, phone and office supplies.
I am managing, reading and updating my website
I am also paying for web-hosting, maintenance and backups
Running Administrative Tasks, Answering Phones, Emails Texts Etc.

Who Can be helped?
Anyone that would like to overcome; Panic Attacks, Stress, Depression, Anxiety, Sleeping Problems, Bipolar Disorder, PTSD, Drugs, Alcohol, Violence, Anger, Jealousy, OCPD, OCD, ADHD, Hoarding, Bullying, Suicidal Thoughts, Low Self-Esteem, Grief, Over Ego and many other mental illnesses, and in the process answer to that particular question. I also think that medications (and not to mentioned the side effects that some of these can cause), family and friends, conventional psychologists, and religions, can at the best temporarily help with these problems but they will never be a permanent solution. With a different approach, I vowed to help as many people as possible to understand the nature of these issues, in a way that it can become a permanent solution.

I used to wonder why things happen (the good and bad), what is the meaning of life (and of dead), what happens after dead (and before being born), is there free will, why I was born, how I ended up here (Exactly at this instant), what are these thoughts, how do I stop this thoughts, where do these thoughts come from, who are we, where do we come from, and even how the universe works.


Casual Public Dialogs:
Primarily; Schools, Shelters, Jails, Hospitals, Orphanages.

Private Casual Dialogs:
For Companies and Businesses

Featuring;
Cosmology
Philosophy
Psychology
Quantum Physics
Neuroscience
World Peace
Compassion
Mindfulness
Awareness
What is Stress and Depression and how to overcome it.
The Source of Happiness
The Source of Depression
Human Rights
Human Values
Moral
Ethics
Meditation

-Gyalten Dorjee
https://ProjectOAnswers.Com

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